I visited Selective Seconds at about 2:20 PM on 9/18/2024. I live nearby and had wanted to visit the store on a few occasions, but their schedule generally does not align well with my schedule. I have recently been undergoing cancer treatment and had time away from work during the day for once. I thought I felt well enough to check out the store and maybe find some affordable and stylish clothing that would fit my changing body.
Upon entering the store, I noticed it had a pleasant smell and was clean. Nobody greeted me, but I was not bothered by that. I realize I look a little feral today. I noticed several items that were reasonably priced.
I browsed with the intention of finding tops that were soft and potentially had buttons or snaps. As I browsed, I overheard the employees and a customer discussing a homeless woman who had wandered across the street. One employee boasted about giving the woman her drink and food and now she didn't have any. At first, I thought, that was a kind and thoughtful gesture, but then thought that good works should stand for themselves. I still was not bothered enough to leave or anything like that.
As time went on, one of the employees asked the customer about a person they work with who is apparently trans. All three women discussed the difficulty in understanding how to properly address a trans person: "It?", "They, I guess?" and finished with saying, "I know it's bad, but that's just how it is now." They further discussed that in the Pacific northwest they call people "humans" instead of he or she. "Go ask that human over there for directions." This led to discussion of a person breaking out car windows and the police in the northwestern city being unable or unwilling to intervene. I thought it was already highly offensive that they were calling trans people "it" and now equating being trans as a root cause of property damage some how was even more offensive.
Then, one of the employees said that locally, Orion schools were talking about putting in litter boxes for students who think they are cats. She assured the others that this was true.
At this point, I was in disbelief. There is absolutely no proof that this urban legend has happened in any school in the US. A simple google search will determine the blatantly false nature of this story.
At this point, I decided I would never give this store money, nor would I purchase anything here. I think I was sticking around to hope that one of them would say ANYTHING remotely redeeming. But, I know if they are talking in such ignorant ways in front of strangers that their conversation in front of others they are comfortable with could only be worse.
It isn't hard to treat people with a little grace, dignity, and respect. Nor is it difficult to refrain from spreading ridiculous bigoted gossip.
Save your time and spend your money...
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