đź’” If I Could Give 0 Stars, I Would! Our Heartbreaking Experience on our wedding day. September 12, 2025 at The Avenir, Walpole MA
I don’t usually write reviews, but our experience at The Avenir in Walpole, MA during what was supposed to be one of the happiest days of our lives was so upsetting that I feel it’s only right to share.
We had planned everything carefully. Ahead of time, we agreed with Keyla, our assigned event manager, that we’d get a one-hour time extension after the scheduled end time. She assured us it could be taken out of our security deposit, and we trusted that. But on the wedding day, as soon as the original time ended, a staff member suddenly yelled at the DJ to shut off the music and even started turning off the lights… right in the middle of the celebration. The bride tried to explain our prior agreement with Keyla, but the staff member spoke to her harshly and dismissively, in front of our guests. It was humiliating, unnecessary, and incredibly hurtful.
We were also promised that the staff would cut and serve the wedding cake after the ceremonial cut. Instead, after we made our first cut, they simply took the cake away and never served it. Our food caterer had to step in and cut the cake themselves, and a few of our guests volunteered to help serve it. It was disorganized and embarrassing for us as a couple.
Our food caterer had even met with the venue’s chef ahead of time. He showed her what she could and couldn’t use in the kitchen and the space she’d have to set up her display. Everything seemed well-organized before the wedding. But on the wedding day, they completely went back on their word… they denied her access to the kitchen and refused to let her use the equipment they had promised. They even told her to wait until after cocktail hour to set up, which caused a lot of frustration and disorganization, making it impossible for her to produce and serve as planned.
They charged us $16,000 for the venue, which was supposed to include food. We didn’t like their menu and politely asked if we could bring our own caterer and have them substitute the food for drinks or something else, but they completely refused to accommodate any flexibility at all.
They also promised to provide ushers to help guests find their seats, but no one showed up. Our guests began arriving and had no idea where to go until our own wedding coordinators… who already had other responsibilities… had to step in and direct everyone.
The groom and his groomsmen were treated terribly. They had gone into the church ceremony room to change because there wasn’t enough space elsewhere, and the staff kicked them out rudely, forcing them into the hallway. They were so embarrassed and uncomfortable that they ended up not changing at all.
To make matters worse, they charged us a $1,000 security deposit for each vendor… food, decoration, and ushering… a total of $3,000. The contract stated it would be refunded within 21–30 days after the event. We only received $1,200 back, and no one ever explained what happened to the rest.
After everything we went through… the rudeness, broken promises, lack of professionalism, and the financial confusion… I can honestly say this venue ruined what should have been one of the most beautiful memories of our lives. We left feeling disrespected, disappointed, and heartbroken.
The Avenir may look elegant on the outside, but our experience showed a complete lack of care, compassion, and integrity behind the scenes. I would never recommend this place to anyone planning a wedding or special event.
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The staff at Avenir was professional, polished, and clearly experienced. From food service to timing, everything flowed perfectly. Our guests could not stop talking about how good the food was and how smooth the entire evening felt. Avenir truly knows how to host a wedding — they’ve mastered the details.
But even with such an amazing venue, the absolute best part of our experience was Kayla, our event producer.
From the moment we connected, Kayla made us feel heard. She never made us feel like just another couple or just another wedding on the calendar. She listened, truly listened, to what mattered to us and made sure it all came to life. She brought calm, confidence, and next-level organization. Every checklist, every timeline, every moving part was handled with so much care.
Kayla is kind, but also real. She’s honest and direct in a way that makes you feel supported, not overwhelmed. When I wanted our ceremony outside, she didn’t hesitate. She had my back and helped make it happen without any issue. I never had to question whether she was on our side — she always was.
And it wasn’t just the big things. I love crab rangoons … and I talked about it constantly. Kayla remembered. On the wedding day, she made sure the staff knew, and she made sure I got my crab rangoons. That small moment meant the world to me because it showed how much she truly paid attention to the little things that mattered to me.
The wedding itself was seamless. Even when things came up behind the scenes, I didn’t find out until later. Kayla handled it all with such grace and calm that I got to be fully present on one of the most important days of our lives — and that is a gift I’ll never forget.
Kayla, if you’re reading this, thank you for hearing us, for grounding us, for protecting our peace, and for giving us a day that was not only beautiful, but effortless because you were behind it all. You weren’t just our Event Producer. You were a constant, a calm, and a quiet hero who made sure everything we hoped for came to life.
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