8%ice CAFÉ 永康公園店 — Restaurant in Da'an District

This review is from an American standpoint. All my complaints may very well be completely normal for Taiwanese ice cream/etc. businesses.

Catching up to the rest of the world in gelato & soft serve. However, couple of things make me hesitate to go back: Lack of tastings. Gelato & ice cream places often let you taste so you can figure out which flavor, amongst many, you want. Maybe it's an Asian thing to not allow tastings? One size only. Why? Never seen a gelato place with one size and only one choice of flavor. I would be fine if I could spend more on a bigger cup so I could get 2-3 flavors. Like other soft serve places in Taiwan, skimps on the serving. Bottom cone barely filled & hollow in the middle. For a 100 NT, I should be getting a full cone (compared to Japan, where I can get soft serve cones from usually 300-400¥, but it's always a satisfying serving). And, IMO, the gelato serving is also pretty small.

I do enjoy the decor and all the food...

BAD ATTITUDE and not friendly with foreigner, look down customers. Right after I entered the door, a man look like shift lead or manager of this coffee shop told us that: you have to spend more than 200NTD so that you can have a table to dine in. Actually, I and my friend just want to use toilet there and dont want to be rude so that we decided to buy the drink (around we cannot find any other place). But the staffs treat us so bad. We can stay and even spend more since 200NTD for a drink is not much. I feel uncomfortable and stayed away from the line and wait for my friend. Later, the man who we met talk to his colleagues that please pay attention to us and ask that what we ordered. I worked in Taiwan as foreigner in customers service industry but I never experienced any rude attitude like that. Then, the drink was delivered to us, and the same man, gave the bare cup with any holder to take away, no straw to use also. One time come, and never comeback. BAD...

心齋 內制三毒

當夫妻其中一方心裡感到不滿時，可能是自己的心出問題了，是什麼問題呢？因為心裡的毒素與廢物已經冒出來了，比如另一半都沒有太注意自己，沒有主動關心時，很快會產生不被愛的感受，接著會掉入自己的劇情。

第六識｜愚痴蓋 產生了和回憶找證明與翻舊帳的境界相，也就是在第六識的思善、思惡的造作力功能中在向對方算總帳的意思。跑過去跟對方提起質疑和抱怨，怎麼不關心自己來獲得對方的重視，就有愚痴蓋的意思，這是因為不明了法義的關係 。很快接下來是一發不可收拾的前兆，這種會隨著結婚時間越長，內心負面是越加容易升起，通常爭吵情況發生時，大部分的夫妻整個晚上都無法平靜，該怎麼辦呢？怎麼在為一個沒有答案的問題在繞，

自己的體會是「感恩」，不論今天關懷的是多、是少，有沒有比較主動，這麼做是為了幫助自己不掉入識蘊的陷阱，能提起正念，當你＂真心接受＂另一半原本性格時，體會到一種放下，如果你再不放下，會被卡在煩惱裡腐壞，腐壞的是內心世界開始生住異滅、成住壞空的體驗，經歷一場自我死亡的儀式，再進一步沒有消除，慢慢地會變成兩人婚姻中實際的障礙▪️需要「忍辱般若波羅蜜」，有些話一旦說出去了，一旦做了，進入修復是會非常難受的，因為裡頭已夾雜著瞋恨的緣故，所以需要忍辱，蘇老師說瞋恨是通往「六道輪迴」的第一個元素，人很難意識自己的「慾望」是對太太或先生不滿的起因，

無限度的貪求會帶來衝突，給家人非常多煩惱。

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