I went with my two special needs toddlers a couple of days ago and though the toddler play area was nice, an interaction with one of the librarians left a bad taste in my mouth.
This was my children's first visit to the library, and since they're so young they were eager to explore and connect with people there. They stayed near me in the toddler area for the most part, but one time my son ran off. He's speech delayed and doesn't understand things receptively just yet, so although I told him to "come back" he didn't understand.
I quickly got my daughter situated, then ran after him after 3 seconds. As I was on my way, the librarian loudly says "He was ALL the way on the other side of the library. Can you PLEASE keep an eye on him." I was taken aback since this was only his first time running away, but her stating that I need to keep an eye on him implied that I wasn't watching him, which is very untrue. I'd understand more if she pulled me to the side to speak about it, but her loudly stating in front of everyone that I need to keep an eye on my toddler who had only ran away moments before was a bit much.
This was our first time visiting, so naturally he wanted to explore, but of course I'm aware that a child should know to stay in the area, so he would eventually learn the rules after a few visits of me helping him understand. As his speech improves he gets better with following directions, and I'm always always always very vigilant about keeping tabs on where my kids are, trying my best to keep them quiet, and I'm very very attentive to them at all times. I could have explained all of that to her had she pulled me aside to chat.
Instead of a private convo to support, she assumed I wasn't watching my babies, simply because my kid's legs move faster than mine (and also because I have another child I'm juggling).
All in all, I would have brushed it off had she politely and privately spoken to me, but her publicly chastising me instead of being curious did not invite for discussion and understanding. It felt very unwelcoming to have a negative spotlight added to an already stressful situation as a mom trying her best two manage two wiggling toddlers.
Having courtesy goes a long way, and hopefully future visitors are treated with more compassion and consideration than I...
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