FCC,
I was invited to this church by my friend Shanika after the loss of her husband. I attended service in hopes for comfort and support, but unfortunately, I didn’t feel welcomed. The overall atmosphere made me feel like I had to stay on guard, and some ushers were surprisingly rude. I didn’t experience the warmth, love, or kindness you’d expect from a church community. No one showed the fruits of the Spirit, and instead of feeling free and peaceful, I felt controlled, especially by not being allowed to choose my own seat. My daughter went up for prayer, and I waited for her in the seat they assigned me to. While I was sitting there, one woman—who stood out by the way she was intensely staring at me—made me feel very uncomfortable. She looked like she wanted to say something but never did, which only added to the tension I felt. Another deeply troubling part of this experience was how my friend Shanika was treated during one of the most vulnerable times of her life—losing her husband.
Two men affiliated with the church, Ramon and a man named Nicco, took advantage of her emotional state. (I understand that Nicco has exhibited anger outbursts while serving in outreach and working with God’s people homeless community) Now, he is currently incarcerated not there at FCC for the time being. About Ramon, I became aware of his behavior through conversations he had with my friend while helping her with her husband's funeral planning. I personally overheard him on speakerphone several times while my friend was reaching out for support and friendship during her time of hardship. At one point, she asked me to be a witness because she felt something was off, especially since she was still fairly new to FCC—only a few months in. When she tried to hold him accountable for his actions, he deflected and attempted to shift the blame onto her.
What concerned me most was hearing Ramon, who is supposed to be a man of God, make inappropriate and unprofessional comments in phone conversations with my friend just days before and after her husband’s passing. He spoke about women at the church—and in his personal life—being “delusional” for believing he was their God-sent husband. These remarks appeared to be aimed at Shanika as well, and Ramon even directly accused her by asking if she thought the same. This behavior was not only insensitive but completely unacceptable given the difficult circumstances she was facing. From what I observed, Ramon was supposed to represent the church in a leadership or outreach capacity. His behavior—playing mind games with a grieving widow—was deeply disturbing and unacceptable, especially from someone in a position of influence within a church community. The church community is supposed to be there for the widows, not playing games on their mindset. SHAME ON THE TWO MEN!
The visit and me witnessing all this and conversations left me feeling more unsettled. A church should be a place of comfort, healing, and integrity. What I witnessed was the opposite, and I hope leadership takes a serious look at the people they allow to serve in such roles. Some churches just aren’t what they used to be.
2 Timothy 3:1-5 (NASB) But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good, treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, holding to a form of godliness, although they have denied its power; Avoid such men as these. #GOD FEARING
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