For almost a week, Iāve been trying to label my feelings and find the right words to express the tsimmes of emotion that has overwhelmed me since I reached out to Chabad of Naples for help on behalf of my mother. More than gratitude or appreciation; more than an act of chesed or a mitzvah. So much more than nutritious, delicious nourishment when she was depleted and ravaged by illness.
The gift bag my mother received was incredible, generous, delicious, extravagant, beautiful, creative, life-saving, remarkable, Divinely-inspired, and at least a hundred more adjectives; and yet, I canāt think of any holy enough to describe the truer gift she received, the feeling of her motherās and daughterās presence right when she was too sick to even drink water and completely alone.
You delivered that on day 3 of not having taken in anything but club soda and crackers; day 9 of me being locked down in another country while my mother was suffering with Covid-19. To a survivor of the Shoah, divorce, 3 cancers, and the losses of her parents, brother, and a husband. And to the caregiver who saw her through all those surgeries and cancers and treatments and losses, and couldnāt be there now.
The gift that I received included pictures of the gift bag and its contents on my out-of-country iPhone, as well as updates on when it would be delivered, my motherās ability to answer the door, and when it was received⦠together with empathetic listening, reassurance, peace of mind, and a reminder that I am not alone. I even had someone else thanking ME for reaching out and giving others the opportunity to do mitzvot!
What words describe how I felt when I heard my motherās voice for the first time in days, about an hour after the package was delivered? I knew that she hadnāt been eating, had no appetite, and that everything she put in her mouth (even water) ātastes disgustingā. She had been too weak and without a voice for so long that we were barely existing on short, confused text messages between long silences. Complicated by the flood of tears coming straight from her soul, I could hardly make out what she was saying when she called to tell me about the delivery, thanking ME with: āI had a little piece of kichel, Lis, and it was the most delicious mouthful⦠a yiddishe tam⦠there are no words⦠my heart is so full⦠a gezunt in dayn heartsellehā¦ā
Thank you for being the angel my mother needed when I couldnāt be. Thank you for delivering Yiddishkeit to someone who was very desperately lacking. Thank you for healing those pieces that medicine just canāt reach.
Very sincerely, Lisa...
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