City of Hope Helford Hospital — Attraction in Duarte

My child tragically lost her life last year at City of Hope hospital, Duarte, CA. She was admitted to the hospital with an unresolved urinary tract infection. There were numerous mistakes made prior to the actions which ended her life but what I am about to tell you was no mistake.

On the night before we hoped to be discharged, she was given an enema. Her bowel perforated. I begged and pleaded for over 9 hours for a surgeon, but the total lack of care and disregard put my daughter in a horrific medical situation which was ignored and dismissed to a point which was not survivable.

Finally, at my wit's end, I dialed 911. They would not come because she was already in a hospital and it was not their policy.

Only after I had called 911 did they make any effort and called the emergency response team. But to my devastation this team abandoned my child, as well. The call went out overhead and a whole team arrived including an emergency response physician and the hospital administrator. They acknowledged she was in critical condition and left the room. The doctor and hospital administrator went and sat at the nurse's station. A surgeon was not called for an additional 2 hours. This is abandonment!

It was 9+ hrs after the enema before they finally called a surgeon. When the surgeon arrived she had to intubate my daughter in her hospital bed, as she was barely alive. My daughter was in respiratory failure, septic, and hemorrhagic shock as she entered surgery. Over those 9 hours all of her bowels died while they let her suffer in pain as I screamed for help. This was not just one bad apple, this was the entire staff The treating nurse, charge nurse, doctor on call, emergency response doctor and hospital administrator, etc.

It was like drowning in slow motion while the lifeguard is swimming just out of reach, with no intention of rescue! I am telling her story because if this sadistic hospital staff will do this to a 26 year old young woman they will do it to you, me or anyone else for that matter.

As a time perspective, my daughter had finished a full semester of school just 3 weeks earlier. And exactly one month later she would NOT be fighting cancer that night, but fighting to keep the hospital staff from killing her.

I still feel the debilitating emotional pain of a mother who couldn't hold and comfort her dying child because I was fighting with everything I had to get her help. It should be simple, right? But Why? Why didn't they help her? I am asked this question every day. It's so hard to believe because it's their job, it's a hospital, and that is something hard to comprehend.

We as patients, parents, family and friends enter a hospital in good faith that the staff is indeed in the business of saving lives. But as I can so horrifically attest, I watched my child die slowly and painfully by the intentional refusal of care. You are at their mercy and if they do not act, you will die and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it.

I will say this clearly, I tried for over 9 hours to get this hospital staff to call someone to save my child. I can still feel the coldness, the disdain and lack of caring, it was palpable. I still become nauseated as the flashes of my child's face, her fading voice, and her legs, mottled, purple and cold from the lack of circulation because the extreme abdominal pressure from her exploded intestines. My child was intentionally neglected by this hospital staff in the most torturous way possible. This hospital proclaims to be the City of Hope. Then why did they put my child in a "Hopeless" situation which was not survivable?

I will never understand the cruel intentions of this staff, but I will say the neglect and inhumane torture of my child was the greatest failure of the Hippocratic Oath I have ever seen.

I owe it to my beautiful, kind and caring child to tell her story. No mother should have to beg for the life of her child while sitting...

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