When it comes to wedding rehearsals, there are two guys who are in charge. However, one of them is very rude. My mother got married 2 years ago and during the rehearsal, the older man got upset with our family saying that they’ve been here for years and that they should know English by now. This comment in particular triggered me the most. Why? Because the same thing can be said about him. He’s been here for years as well yet he can’t speak basic Spanish. A lot of Hispanics attend this church. He should at least know some Spanish too to better communicate with others, especially as someone in charged of wedding rehearsals. My aunt is getting married this year and we had rehearsal on Thursday. He gave us the same nasty attitude. He spent the whole time throwing shady comments. My great grandmother is part of the occasion and as we were practicing, he said “does she have any movement.” Mind you, my great grandmother does not have the age to move fast anymore. He’s an old man too who’s going to be in the same situation soon so for him to make that comment was very ignorant and disrespectful. He ruins the whole experience with his nasty attitude. It’s very upsetting. There should be people who at least speak both languages to make this whole process easier and quicker. It would be very considerate from the church if they chose people who can speak both languages to help with rehearsals. Even if someone has been here for years and doesn’t fully understand English, they shouldn’t be bashed, especially at a church. The guy is doing something that’s part of God in a very awful manner. He tried to justify his actions by saying “we want the wedding to be beautiful and perfect” so do we that’s why we attended rehearsal. He could’ve approached the whole situation in a better and positive way. If this is the type of people helping out with things that involve God then wow… very very upsetting.