眼鏡帥哥的態度良好,除了一直幫我加水以外,協助外帶的時候也是面帶笑容。餐點價格和品質就和其他家客美多一樣(我每次都一直記成客多美==)位置舒服很有隱私感。
紀錄一下我們去過的地方,終有一日會將這段回憶放下。這邊是我們第一次約會的地方,她一開始去錯家分店了,所以我等了大概快三十分鐘左右,等到我們倆都不緊張了。
她小心翼翼的說,妳不會等太久生氣了吧?我說沒有呀?我知道妳有妳的理由,她鬆了口氣,即使她沒有很相信的樣子。雖然她後來的每一次都沒有準時到過,但是我沒有任何一次不開心,她有她的原因,而我只要能見到她便已足矣。再者,我理解她的族裔有晚到的習慣,假設我對於她的文化完全不了解的話,我可能才會不開心吧,扯遠了。
我問她說我長得是妳想像的樣子嗎?因為我的自拍照總是用手機遮著臉,她說她完全想不到我會長怎麼樣。我問,那麼我是妳的菜嗎?我內心想的是我夠masc嗎,她笑著說是啊。後來她也問了我,我覺得她fem嗎?我說當然。但是不管她是fem或者是masc,我想我都會喜歡的。
她本人跟我想像的長的不太一樣,自拍照很像我童年時期的朋友。要怎麼形容她的樣子呢?她有一張表情豐富的面容,緊張時會翻白眼,消化不熟悉的情緒的時候,眼睛會略微張大,然後撇開視線,專注時的神情讓我覺得時間似乎一度停滯似的,好像全世界只剩下我和她。她常常說自己有個會說話的臉蛋,我很認同。
她菜單看了很久,指著香蕉牛奶的照片問我是不是雞尾酒。我們點了冰與火(草莓口味的)還有豬排三明治,她點了咖啡,我點了奶茶。我本來食量就很小,所以餐點幾乎都是她吃掉的,但是我還是付了一半的錢,有人相信四百多塊只吃了一塊三明治,幾口甜點跟一杯飲料嗎。我們客家人平常可是很摳的。
她說妳吃好甜,我說會嗎?我只是把糖漿全都倒進去而已啊,然後她居然只加一半而已,我還是不懂為什麼有人喜歡喝咖啡。
她把冰與火上面的愛心巧克力給了我,說是把她的心也順便交給我,我笑了一下。她其實是個很少表達自己情感的人,也許是第一次見面的關係,所以她才會如此坦率吧。
I then took out my notebook with questions written on it, she seemed nervous and overwhelmed. I read the questions to her...
You mentioned before about your past experiences and how they affected you. Do you think you're ready to get into another relationship again? (For that she answered yes)
You also mentioned that your love language is quality time, how are you planning to make it work considering your work schedule? (For that she answered her partner always comes first)
How have the long working hours affected your relationships with others? (Like friends and family) And how has your work affected you mentally and physically? When's the last time you actually took a break? (She didn't answer this question, I think she probably deliberately avoided this, as I tried to bring the same question up months after this, still no answer)
And the last question that I asked was, have you always worked long hours? Or did anything happen that sort of change your life style (For that she answered she just started her second job not too long ago)
然後,她就開始講她的前男友和前女友,我很專注的聽著她講,然後一度聽到差點哭,因為我很容易產生共感,我握著她的手和她說沒事的,但其實我也在和自己講沒有關係的。
她給了我她母國的紀念品還有一張明信片(我忘記我放到哪去了,應該還卡在某個櫃子的中間)說不要忘了她,我說不會的,怎麼會忘記妳呢。
吃完飯之後,我們一起走到了公園,她說要不要吊單槓,我說我才不要,她說妳很固執欸,她試著吊了一次,沒吊成功,我也只好試探性的把手放在上面摸了一下,然後我抽出背包裡面的抗菌濕紙巾,一人一張。
我們又走了一小會兒,她說我們能坐下嗎?她腳好痛,我才發現我忘記了她腳受傷還沒好全的事,我向她道了歉,是我思慮不周,然後我們就坐在了旁邊的長椅上,我很自然的把頭靠在她的肩膀,結果她說那是她的胸,所以我趕緊將後腦勺移到正確的位置。
她輕笑了一聲,說好久沒有人這樣子靠在她身旁了,然後她伸手攬住我的腰際,問我舒不舒服,我支支吾吾的講不出半句話,因為我只想再更靠近她一點。她給我看了她喜歡的創作者,但是裡面講的是她的母語,所以我完全聽不懂,她說騎車來的時候,她聽的是Doja Cat,我說我也喜歡。
過了一陣子,她說身體不太舒服,所以我們去超商買了一罐水,配著她的止痛藥吃,超商店員還碎念了一句「外國人...」但是她其實聽的懂一點中文,所以她問了我說,妳剛剛有聽到店員說了什麼嗎?
I was reading the Joy Luck Club recently, and when one of the main characters took her bf back home, her mom literally said "waiguoren" as well. I chuckled a little when reading this passage, tho I never introduced her to my mom (not in person, at...
Read moreA nice place for a quick bite or light snack. Service more towards 3.5: I think they were short-staffed during our visit. We had to wait a while for our order to arrive. And once the food arrived, it was another wait for our drinks. With bread, I like to have my drinks ready before I start getting into our - because it can get dry. By the time the drink arrived, the bread was a little cold. But I could tell they were trying their best, so I didn't hold it against them. Just rating their service based on my experience. Bread was well-buttered, soft and perfectly toasted. The egg was hard-boiled. For the drinks, I think the green tea won out over green tea with milk. The latter was just too milky with very faint hint of green tea. The good thing about this place is it was good value if you went for the combo. If you bought drink, you get the bread & egg with it. If not, the drink might be...
Read moreFor a moderately priced coffee shop, the egg salad sandwich set was really good. I'm ovolacto, so asked for no chicken nuggets... usually the sandwich is paired with two nuggets. The salad was a bit unusual in that it had some Taiwan styled picked vegetables, along with shredded cabbage, sprouts and other goodies. All super fresh and crispy. The unusual combination really hit the spot. It made a great pair to the rich creaminess of the generous egg salad sandwich. They don't skimp... I was hard put to finish mine over the two hours I was there. All this for just 90nt with any drink order. Mine? I cafe au lait. All served just right, and promptly. Staff were courteous, helpful and considerate. Environment simple but clean & comfortable. I definitely will return again any time I have...
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