⭐☆☆☆☆ Very Disappointed with the Behavior at Eid
I came to ICPC for the Eid celebration, expecting a warm and welcoming environment. Unfortunately, I experienced the opposite. I took four cookies — nothing extreme — and somehow that became an issue. I was confronted over something so minor, in a way that felt rude and unnecessary, especially on a day meant for joy and togetherness.
Even worse, I saw a sister get yelled at just for trying to get a cup of coffee. Instead of calmly guiding her, someone shouted, “Go to the women’s side!” — completely disrespectful and uncalled for. This kind of treatment doesn’t reflect the values of our deen or what a masjid should stand for.
Then, to top it off, some guy — and I’ll gladly share the picture — had the nerve to confront me like I was in the wrong, talking down to me without even knowing the full story. Acting like a self-appointed enforcer of the rules while ignoring the real problem — the lack of adab and kindness from the staff or volunteers.
This is a place that should feel like a second home for all Muslims, not somewhere you feel judged or attacked. ICPC needs to seriously reflect on how it handles its events and how its people treat others.
Also if this guy is married imagine the tyrant behavior he does behind closed doors and the lack of communication...
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