The waitress with her gum smacking was rude beyond words , we sat ourselves , we got our own menus, silverware, napkins , asked three different waitresses for lemon for water . The food took extremely long but we were provided a show with the employees using vulgar words in and out of the kitchen . My wife’s food had what appeared to be hair in it but wait the waitress said it was egg no worries ! The waitress came to table and addressed my wife as “ momma” what else do you want to eat ? We respectfully said nothing but that wasn’t good enough for her she continued to address my wife as momma in a condisening way. We told her that was disrespectful and she used words that I will not bother to repeat . When asked to speak to a manager she walked out of the kitchen where she continued to talk badly of us and raised her hands in the air to us and said “What?” I was walking behind her to the front of the store and I could hear her say how we were very rude. She’s had to deal with customers all morning if this is what the day is going to be like she should just go home. We asked if she was the manager and she said yes and laughed . We told her okay and asked the young man for the owners information he replied they are out of town . If you want it, you’ll have to look it up online. If this is how customers are treated in Haystack’s we will not be going back and would encourage others to think twice about going .