Xtadium — Restaurant in Seattle

This is a great place to go if you are looking to interact with a bouncer that aggressively puts his hands on women and shoves them out of the club. This was my first and LAST visit to this disgusting excuse of a club.

I was here with a group of my girlfriends last night (Ladies Night on Friday's...what a joke) when a guy came up and asked if we wanted to join them in V.I.P. Sure; why not? We went up there and were just minding our own business and dancing but apparently because we weren't dancing and entertaining the guys, they weren't happy and had the bouncer come up to us and demand that we needed to leave the V.I.P area immediately in an aggressive tone. We calmly asked why because we weren't doing anything and he said he didn't care and that we needed to get out of there right now. We shrugged and left like he asked.

The rest of the night was him glaring at us. Let me remind you, WE DID NOT DO ANYTHING. We left when he asked, despite him being a tool. We were just trying to have a good time. He came down and yelled at us at another point for "blocking the ropes/stairs." I'm not quite sure what he had against us but again, we didn't make a big deal out of it.

Later on, we saw the bouncer literally pushing a woman down the stairs and continued to push her out of the club. She wasn't resisting; she wasn't hitting him; she was walking on her own and he was PUSHING HER.

Towards the end of our night there, one of the guys that was in the V.I.P. section tried to insert himself into our little circle and one of my friends put her arms out to block him and I guess he tripped on the rope and fell a little bit. The same bouncer appeared out of nowhere and GOT IN MY FRIEND'S FACE and asked her "If she needs to leave." He started yelling how he was going to kick her out. Mind you, he was inches from her face, just yelling. At this point, I was legitimately concerned that he was going to physically hurt her so I put my hand in between them and told him to back off and he was not going to touch her. He eventually walked back up the stairs to the V.I.P. and was staring me down. The guy that fell starting flipping us off from laughing. Another bouncer came over and asked what was going on, and my friend that was screamed at calmly told him what happened. That jerk walked back down to GET IN MY FRIEND'S FACE AGAIN behind the other bouncer. The other bouncer turned around and told him to back off. He walked back up the stairs and continued to glare at us. The other bouncer told my friend that if she didn't feel safe, leave. We left on our own accord and will NEVER come back here. Thanks for your help!

(Bouncer I'm referring to is a skinny, white male about 5'9 with brown hair and some facial hair. He looks like he's going to be in the next mass shooter.)

I'm glad that if one of your bouncers is threatening and screaming in women's faces and physically assaulting them for literally no reason, they should leave if they don't feel safe because God forbid you do your job and report him/get him fired. I have never once been treated this way or witnessed bouncers treating women/people like this. You understand your job is to stop/prevent fights from happening and protecting women from predatory guys right? Not to start them and be a predator? You best believe I'll be telling everyone I know to stay the hell...

Worst nightmare... If there were negative stars, this place has definitely earned them... A group of friends and I found ourselves living a complete nightmare after stepping into this club. We attended this past Friday night, also known as "Ladies night." Little did we know we were entering a misogynistic trap. We were harassed by a group of men who just so happened to be in the VIP section. Let this be a reminder that being in the VIP section buys you bottle service and a space to interact with your group. What it sure does not buy you is EXCLUSIVE safety from the bouncers, the freedom to treat others like TRASH and definitely not the freedom to HARASS the other attending individuals. After being bullied multiple times throughout the night by this group of men, putting up with the bouncer serving the VIP section purposely ignoring what was happening, actively trying to remove ourselves in the most respectful and non-threatening way possible, I had enough! When one of the entitled harassers worked his way down towards my group (mind you this was his 2nd or 3rd time), I removed myself (hands in the air) from his way to protect myself and my friends from allowing him to once again enter our bubble. The gentleman obviously being very intoxicated fell to the ground. The bouncer furiously sprinted towards me to punish me and demand that I leave... I remove myself and explain that I do not feel safe, he continues to ask me to leave. I simply go back to my friends and try to understand WHY I HAVE BECOME THE PROBLEM?!? I'm sick to my stomach and at this point feeling more UNSAFE than ever. The one person who is supposed to be protecting our safety is basically SHAMING me for feeling UNSAFE. His partner comes down tries to intervene. Just when I feel like I have an opportunity to kindly express my concern, he too tells me that if I am unsafe, the ONLY solution is for me to leave. At this point, the harasser is flicking my friends and I off as the two bouncers continue to demand me to leave... We left, in our own terms. I REFUSE to spend a single dime at this location and encourage the public to reconsider investing in this place.

*VIP bouncers working 3/9/18, I do not know how you can live with your actions.

My hope is that this review will prevent ANYONE from feeling UNSAFE,...

Great experience on Friday night at this location for two of my guy friends birthday celebrations. We went with a group of friends (7 total) on Friday and some of us arrived early at 10:00am to get access to parking to this location. Paid $17 parking across the street. No cover for males in our group.

My partner and I were able to get dinner here before they closed their kitchen. Food was delicious, good price, and great portions per person. We had the penne veggie dish and sliders. Staff service was great and welcoming.

Dress code is somewhat strict and upscale. Observed majority of men with dark jeans, long sleeve dress short and dress shoes. Womxn with cocktail dresses or semi casual outfits with sneakers/heels.

Music was a mixture of old school and current hip hop with occasional touches of trap, reggae, and reggaetón/Latino hits. Wish there was an ability to suggest music changes. Perhaps this location could get an app for guests to suggest songs or charge for song changes.

Seating is limited for groups unless you purchase lounge seating in advance. Space is compact but enough to dance with groups of friends. Restrooms were clean throughout the entire night with great service at both gender restrooms. Loved this aspect of this location in comparison to other locations that have disgusting upkeep of their restrooms.

One last suggestion: have this location create a voicemail on their business line in case new guests who haven’t been there before can know if there is cover or special events happening. Or referring to their website or social media pages. Also listing when people should expect a call back. Two phone numbers for reservations on their website did not work.

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