It was a fun experience but please, watch out for the disabled guy, who brought the fancy, young, dark blond/brown haired white woman in a short dress over, probably about a week ago (me, lmao). His 1st name is Frederic is all I know (along his address) and he's supposed to be blind, on a wheelchair. Imagine a typical 60y/o, after too many beers, with a scar on his head. Thinking if I shouldn't report him, for the future.
The reasons are:
I thought we're visitting as friends and he just doesn't have friends to hang out with or something, but he's implying we're together and tried to guilt trip me with his implications later. He actually confessed to me in the hall and I decided not to answer, before I make it home, safely. I rejected him kindly, via messages, but the next day he said "soon I'm going to get a girl as YOUNG and pretty as you" with his manic laughter and we assessed some more info, with my boyfriend. Turns out he always dates much younger (he has 3 daughters around my age, I wonder why he still wants much younger women) and seems like he was planning for a few weeks now, how to groom me. Overall trying to manipulate me into going to his apero and mix alcohols, pressuring me before the apero even started (I'm playing sick, so pls don't tell him I'm just not coming cause I'm scared omg) and making sexual jokes about me, with his, to what I saw, much older friends. I gave him a no a few times, via sms and in reality with so many different explanations. He seems to not understand this word and tries to manipulate me further. I think this will be the last saturday that I'll work at his place, I'm creeped out.
Warn the other women he'll be coming with, he only looks friendly and the laughs are fake. The joke to him are the women he's trying to get, because he thinks about grooming you, while talking with you. That's why he's laughing so hard, it is suspicious and it should alarm you, especially if you don't have anyone to give you a better look at his words. Also, he tried to alienate me from my boyfriend, when we were drinking, he's very bitter about him and tried to spread it onto me. It's a typical way of a groomer - give the kid support, alienate the parent, attack. He knows all my, my boyfriend's and his own rights. Except for the ones I asked him to chat with his "contacts" of. Overall tries to manipulate me in a way that would keep me coming back to work, or would make me stay for a night. Gives me clothes of his previous, previous ex and pressures me to wear them. Treated me like a kid when I installed a dating app out of curiosity (also under his influence, since he almost made us break up with his bitterness and trying to flip our current knowledge, with him "living in Nantes for years", except he hasn't worked a day in his life), as if I'm his property already. I don't feel comfortable with this at all. Seems like I know why he had so many bad experiences with therapists "leaking info" and treats his "friends" like one. 😬 I'd warn the surroundings too, on the therapists' place.
I'm used to men acting creepy and trying to groom me, so I played along over the meeting and didn't sense the danger at 1st, sounded like an average party in my life. 🙄 I was laughing along, half our talks, because he offered me help, with a future startup. I was trying not to pass out from the beers, despite him trying to pressure me to sleep at his place (I was sweating at the laughs and went home with the 1st better bus at 4am, so that I could avoid sleeping there after the last bus passed). Watch out for all his future, younger companions please - inform them he's a creep and they should contact me or his exes for opinions, before spending time with him. He dropped his ex soon after I appeared, who was "not much older than me", so I assume he just tries to go younger and younger. Boredom must really be hitting his head but just warn people to watch out, as he has ulterior motives.
I'll paste it under the restaurant we ate at later too. Feel free to answer me, if you'll need me to delete...
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