I recently had an extremely truamatic experience here.
I was referred here for an hsg. These procedures are extremely painful and can be extremely uncomfortable. If you look up what it involves — you will understand why.
After going back to the room I was told my husband could not stay with me because the room was going to be too crowded. I told them I had a history of trauma and needed him there for this type of procedure. The tech insured me I would have support and they made him leave.
I told the two nurses who came in that I had a history of trauma and was extremely nervous. I never had the chance to speak with the doctor. They set me up on the table. The doctor came in and without saying more than hello - began the procedure.
I was immediately triggered by this older male doctor and did not feel comfortable at all (this trigger was related to the trauma I had already mentioned to everyone in the room).
It was the most excruciating pain I have ever felt (even more than epidural-free labor). I began to cry and scream for the doctor to stop. They did not stop. I screamed for them to stop numerous times repeatedly before the doctor finally asked the nurse if he should stop - she then told him yes stop.
Without talking to me — he stormed off. The nurse said I could reschedule the procedure at a later time. I was hysterically crying at this point. I said there was no way I was doing this procedure without some type of medication or sedation.
One of the nurses responded by saying "its not that bad, you dont need medication for this procedure." I asked her if she had ever had it done. She responded "no, but I have had babies..." — I was having this procedure done due to recurrent pregnancy losses.
Still crying, I told her she did not need to be condescending and explained that everyones anatomy is different. I asked her if the doctor would be able to prescribe something next time... she said absolutely not. I told her there had to be more options so that I could tolerate the procedure. This entire time I am in a gown waiting for all the nurses and staff to leave so I can get dressed.
I then asked her why the forms had the option for medication on them. She said it is a generic form. I then told her that there had to be a doctor in the area who would be understanding. She then told me no other facility in the area does these procedures and absolutely no doctor would do this procedure with medication or sedation because its "not that bad."
I was still standing there waiting for everyone to leave when she said she didn't like my tone and said she was calling security. I asked her why she was calling security. She said she didnt like my tone. I said I was waiting for her to leave so I could get dressed and was only asking questions about my healthcare and reminded her of how humiliating and excruciating this procedure was for me and instead of being compassionate she was negating my pain and trauma.
She proceeds to call security. I asked her again why she was calling security when no one was hurting or threatening her. She refused to walk away. THE OTHER NURSE in the room told me just to ignore her because she can be a "b*."
I asked her to leave numerous times. Instead of her leaving she had a male security guard come to the room while I was still undressed for no reason instead of just leaving so I could get dressed and leave.
I finally asked to speak with a charge nurse and explained what happened. She apologized and sent security away.
This experience re-traumatized me for no reason. No doctor should ever proceed with a procedure of this nature after being told to stop numerous times. He proceeded after I withdrew consent. This was assualt.
This nurse did not need to be so rude. She profiled me due to my tattoos and assumed I was a threat even though I was crying from the pain and trauma I just experienced. This nurse should never have been giving medical advice and should have spoke with the doctor regarding my questions.
Thankfully, UCSD DOES the procedure...
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