I called this organization hoping for basic help escaping a domestic violence situation with my children. I explained that I already have a spot with PATH shelter in NYC and that my relocation funding only needed a simple one-sentence email from any NY-based third party stating that I have a plan (as my planned location cant give my current shelter any confidential info)in order to release my tickets back to ny, and I thought the place where I joined hours of lectures before would be able to send this small yet important email. A silly thing to be requested but that's what they want. I was not asking for housing or financial help, just for a basic, compassionate acknowledgment to help me and my children move back to safety.
Instead, the woman on the phone immediately questioned my area code, as if having a different area code meant I can't live in New York. My area code is purposely a city I don't reside in so my abuser can't narrow down where I am if he gets my number. She interrupted me repeatedly, didn’t try to understand my request, and hung up on me mid-sentence after asking me why and I was explaining that PATH is already prepared to take us in, and that my travel funding source just needed an unofficial NY based witness acknowledgment first.
The call wasn’t long. She didn’t ask any clarifying questions. She just cut me off and disconnected. I was calm, polite, and desperate for help and I was treated like I didn’t matter at all. This is incredibly harmful behavior from an organization that presents itself as a Muslim community support service. Not only was there zero compassion, the experience was dismissive, dehumanizing, and dangerous to a woman fleeing violence. If your organization cannot offer help, at the very least you should treat people with basic respect. I was planning on taking my kids along to ICNA events to teach them community and faith, but not anymore.
If this is how you respond to women in crisis, you should not be promoted as a resource. I hope other survivors are not...
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