My husband Devon started admission into UCLH and Hospital for Neurology from December 2024 and had a very rare illness that the doctors found very difficult to diagnose. He was treated well sometimes and mistreated sometimes.
Some of the nurses, healtcare assistants and support workers, mostly from African countries, were nice and did the job out of passion while some were just about the money or opportunity and could not care less.
He was in and out of hospital and from April to July 2025, his condition worsened and so he had to remain in UCLH without any discharge from April to July. Now that's a very long time to be in hospital.
He was on one on one and I want to commend the Good Healthcare Assistants like HCA Esther, HCA Kate from Neurology who sometimescame over to cover in UCLH, Support Worker Aziz and that Lovely Yoruba female Support Worker, I cant remember your name. You guys really took care of Devon and made sure that he was ok and i really appreciate you all. Thank you so much.
To the other good Nurses, Healthcare Assistants, Dieticians, Food Servers, Ward Managers & Managing Assistants and Doctors & Junior Doctors who made sure that Devon did not suffer, A special thanks to you all as well.
To the African Support Workers and Cleaners who thought that intimidating and humiliating Devon because he had no control over his bowels after the near death experience and had to wear pampers or sometimes could not help the accidents that he did on himself or shouted at him asking him why did he have the accident or forced him to clean it up by himself, knowing his poor condition, I hope that one day, you yourselves get to experience the same things that you put Devon through.
It was so inhumane, so cruel, so wicked to shout at a very ill man for doing a number 2 in his pampers because he could not control his bowel or humiliating him to the point that he became so scared that he would quickly try to clean up the floor himself fearing that humiliation, even to the point that he passed out on the floor a few times. He reported it, absolutely nothing was done about it.
You guys thought that Devon was in hospital too long and so after some time, you started mistreating him. With the exception of the few that were mentioned before. You all wanted him out at any cost and made his life miserable......this is a very ill man who had a very active life before becoming ill, was never lazy. I wonder where your conscience are. Do you guys not have father's, brothers, uncles, husbands?
UCLH is one of the best hospitals in London, I do agree. However, with just a few horrible staff that has no passion for the job and just there for opportunity or money, the standards of the hospital will go very low very quickly.
If you dont have a passion for caring, you cannot care for another. I know this as I myself, I'm also in the health sector. Alot of you are inhumane and because of your background, despite this is UK, where things are done differently, some of you still carry this bad background with you even here in UK and it's so bad.
If someone is ill, that person should be made to feel better and not worse, not intimidated or humiliated when you are being paid to do the job. Why are you there if you don't like it? For opportunity? For money? That is not cool. Not...
Ā Ā Ā Read moreAfter a complex situation involving multiple hospitals/clinics, the UCLH have not taken any responsibility for a missed diagnosis. Whilst they were not solely involved, the other care provider has also denied fault. Both care providers have clinicians working across both establishments. In Dec 24 I identified an abscess in my own MRI - images that had been viewed by multiple clinicians. At this point Iād been living with horrendous ongoing urine infections for over 6 years and had developed resistance to multiple antibiotics. I was eventually referred to the UCLH and was supposedly discussed at an MDT in August 24. It is now October and I still have not received a letter regarding the outcome. Apparently said letter was sent to the referring clinician. I have contacted them twice requesting the letter and both times Iāve been informed they are chasing it. Initially, I was told the letter was on the My Care app - the app Iād checked many times awaiting the MDT outcome. It would not surprise me if they have sent it to the wrong person or uploaded it to the wrong My Care account. Unfortunately, I have no choice but pursue care at this hospital. If I could go to another one with different clinicians, I would. I will certainly be leaving as soon as Iāve left theatre and will not spend a minute longer in their ācareā than is absolutely necessary. To say I cannot trust any of them is an understatement.
UPDATE:
After I caused the hospital 2/3 times for a response regarding the prom rod the MDT, I ended up contacting the General Manger. She sent me the MDT letter which was dated the 5.8.24. She sent me the letter on 16.10.24!!! It took over two months to be sent a letter after Iād been chasing it for weeks. The outcome of the letter was shocking⦠Iāve been told the cyst (abscess) is unlikely to be obstructing my urethra and therefore thereās no point in removing it. Iāve been recommended a test to see if it is obstructing my urethra, which we already know it isnāt⦠and therefore Iām being asked to go through a traumatic and completely pointless experience. THEY HAVE RECOMMENDED ROUTINE MANAGEMENT OF UTIS⦠FOR A URETHRAL ABSCESS!!! I have been taking antibiotics daily for 7 years next month. When I stop taking them, the abscess drains into my urethra and I get a UTI. The UTIs are a symptom of the abscess. The abscess needs to be removed.
Sadly, this is yet another example of the NHS failing. By them accepting I have an issue they need to resolve, itās highlighting an issue that should have been managed as part of my ongoing care 7 years ago.
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The clinic that caused the infection in the first place has been equally as unhelpful. Sadly, I have found the Consultants to be far too arrogant to care. I have reported every organisation involved to the Parliamentary and Health Ombudsman and will report every clinician involved to the GMC. This cannot happen to...
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