Iād been wanting to check this place out for a while and decided to come by on Taco Tuesday. I came hoping to meet people and enjoy the atmosphere, but the experience ended up being pretty uncomfortable.
The bar was clearly understaffed, which I understand happens. But I still left feeling unwelcome, especially as someone with mobility needs.
I was told exactly where to stand instead of being offered options, and asked to stay there until my food was ready. When I asked if there was more patio space, I got laughed at instead of a simple āno.ā Later, I moved to a ledge so I could lean more comfortably, and the bartender called me out publicly. He said he couldnāt move me again because he couldnāt get the cookās attention (which he didn't explain earlier, I really wasn't trying to cause trouble). He and a customer laughed about it :( I apologized and went back to where I was before, but it felt pretty humiliating. I tried to stick it out as long as I could.
Eventually, the cook came out with someone elseās order, and I let him know I needed to cancel mine. He didnāt know what I had ordered and asked me to speak with the bartender. I said I would. It wasnāt my intention to waste anyoneās timeājust hard to know how to handle things when it felt like Iād already been made into a problem. I offered my future tacos to someone nearby (they didnāt want them), so I guess those are now free for the bar.
When I told the bartender I was leaving and that the tacos could go to someone else, he looked furiousāwhite-knuckled and completely unresponsive. Iād already paid and tipped, so the bar wasnāt losing anything. I just didnāt feel comfortable staying, and honestly, I wasnāt hungry anymore.
Being almost a year sober, Iāve found that showing up to places like this takes effort. I came hoping to feel part of something, but left feeling like I didnāt belong. Not sharing this to drag the bar, just hoping itās useful context for anyone else navigating similar situations.
I might avoid Taco Tuesdays at Diesel in the future, and if I come back, Iāll probably try a different nightāor a different bartender. There was a handwritten sign joking that you wonāt find skinny boys at Diesel, and maybe I shouldāve taken the hint. I love bears, but I felt like I was...
Ā Ā Ā Read moreLetās start by saying Iām straight. Went in to this establishment with my wife and our gay friends since we were in the area. Iāve never been to a gay bar, but was excited to give it a go with our friends. Letās just say Iāve never felt so discriminated against in my life, as someone who fully supports the scene and thinks anyone should be able to live life however they want⦠it was quite disturbing to be looked and and treated the way we were in here. The bartender was super rude and didnāt seem thrilled to be helping the straight couple. We ordered very simple whiskey sours, our drink was literally whiskey and water. So gross. Just a gross energy too honestly.
Def wonāt be back here, but looking forward to trying out some of the other spots in the area. I will tell people to try anywhere but here and personally look forward to trying out some of the other places in the area with...
Ā Ā Ā Read moreBar tender attempted to kick us out despite the fact that we showed ID as we entered. There is someone who is taking ID as you walk in so clearly minors couldn't be in even if they wanted to. My group was 4 people all at least 25. It was just super weird. Crowd was ok. Drinks were fantastic. It just wasn't a super fun or welcoming bar. I'm gay everyone in my group was at least bi so I kinda just don't get why today they were so harsh we were kinda shoved around a lot. Maybe this just isn't a bar for younger folks but I just really don't understand why everyone we encountered was so unwelcoming. Only 3 decent songs the whole 2 hrs we were there and no one was dancing or anything. I really feel like this place could've been a great spot I loved the drinks and...
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