MARRIED by REV ROXY — Local services in Westfield

One of the best decisions my husband Leon and I made when it came to our wedding had to be when we decided on the incomparable Rev Roxy as our officiant. Even though we were a bit late when we decided on an officiant (and honestly wish we had even more time and interactions with Rev Roxy), she helped to make our ceremony one of the major highlights of that amazing day in August. From the time that we contacted her, she was warm, welcoming and genuine. With less than two months until our wedding date, we wondered if we could find someone who would understand and honestly even get to know us. Happily, we could see that Roxy was the perfect person to guide us into this new chapter of life. Our phone calls were full of laughter, guidance, and praise for all that we have done together and what would be done in the future. What we found especially incredible about Rev Roxy was that she showed us our love was incredibly unique and we should honestly be with one another. We knew that this was a trait that was hard to come by in any officiant. To have someone who gets you as individuals is one thing, as a couple is another, but to have both aspects even though we knew her for only a few weeks is truly special. Roxy kept in constant contact with us and pushed to get to know us throughout the entire wedding process. She was easily accessible and open to talk to us whenever we needed her. Rev Roxy gave us suggestions when it came to planning, marriage and most importantly, life itself. Through this connection, she created a beautiful ceremony that featured our strengths, highlighted our love story and truly emphasized who we are as a couple. Everyone could see that the moment was made for us and that could not have been done without her. Our relationship with her continued even three months after our wedding when sadly my mother-in-law became ill. Rev Roxy reached out with her love, thoughts, and prayers when we needed her the most. Sending those encouraging words proved how she strives to have a genuine, personal connection with each and every person she meets. After my mother-in-law passed, she contacted us again, prayed for us and even sent a card to our home. Her thoughtful gesture was not a surprise. Who do you know that would do something like that after knowing you for less than six months? Rev Roxy! Her actions touched our hearts and solidified that we made the right choice by choosing her. She is professional, compassionate, authentic, kind, reliable, thoughtful and especially fun. She continues to grow as a professional and we look forward to cheering you on in all the amazing things you will do next. Leon and I cannot thank you enough for everything that you have done for us, Rev Roxy. We love you so much and thank you for it all. We are...

Rev Roxy is the ABSOLUTE BEST officiant and individual to have on your wedding team! From my first inquiry Rev Roxy was personable, forthcoming and easy to work with! Once I found out she was available for our date I was ecstatic and reserved her right away! From that moment, my now husband and I never felt alone. Although Rev Roxy is an officiant, she played a major role in giving us advice, recommendations and referrals for our wedding! Believe it or not, Rev Roxy actually referred us to our photographer/videographer (Kesha Lambert Photography) and DJ (DJ IM) who were just as AMAZING as Rev Roxy suggested!! This lifted a huge weight off of us and helped us get the absolute best services to make our day so amazing! The entire process of working with Rev Roxy was enjoyable. In my bridal meltdown a week before the wedding I was so stressed out about the rehearsal. I originally didn’t add that service to our contract as I thought it was something I could handle. Very last minute (like days before the rehearsal) I contacted Rev Roxy and she immediately comforted me and checked her availability. She was able to fit us in her busy schedule last minute and oh what a relief that was!!!! She was there before anyone waiting at our rehearsal location and she took charge from there, helping us anticipate any issues we may have as well as pointing out important factors to know. Regarding the actual ceremony, Rev Roxy was inquisitive about the highlights of our relationship, which I now know is part of her creative, custom ceremony process. Rev Roxy shows much interest in your relationship and really wants to get to know you and your significant other. Her custom ceremony was so realistic and exactly what we wanted. Nothing about it was cliche or generic. On the day of our wedding she had everyone in tears (my husband included!). Rev Roxy attended our reception and it was like having another family member or close friend there! Another fun thing to mention, although my husband and I aren’t very active on social media, Rev Roxy did not forget about us and (with our permission) shared our engagement photos and later wedding photos for her followers to enjoy! Overall, if you are looking for an officiant who is really going to put effort and time into your wedding and you are looking for a custom, personable ceremony- CHOOSE REV ROXY!!!! We are so...

If you are searching for more than a wedding officiant then you have come to the right place. After getting engaged, we sought out a wedding officiant early on in an effort to knock things off “our list”. One day on Instagram we found Rev Roxy and decided to follow her. After a few weeks of watching her videos and Instagram posts we decided to contact her. Our first conversation was so comfortable, honest, caring, and fun. After some discussion, we decided that Rev Roxy and MBRR couples counseling with her and her husband, Reverend Joshua Birchfield, would be a great fit for us. Pre-martial counseling was important to us, to ensure we truly understood what we were embarking on and the journey it would lead us on. Over the course of 1 year and 7 months Rev Roxy and Reverend Joshua became our friends, big brother and sister, and counselors. We not only learned about ourselves and one another, but also received the chance to personally connect with the Reverends. The time that we shared together was open and honest on both ends. We shared ups and downs and everything in between. What a pure and heartfelt experience it was as we got to share in engaging conversations, laughs, tackle tough topics and conversations while also learning about marriage and it’s lifelong commitment from a godly and psychological perspective. Upon our wedding weekend we met Rev Roxy in person and in true Rev Roxy fashion she was fashionable, fun, and warm! The connection we grew and nurtured with her from day 1 allowed meeting her to feel as though it was the one millionth time rather than the first time.

Come our wedding day, November 10, 2019, Rev Roxy was punctual, professional, energetic, stylish, and filled with great energy. Our family and friends truly enjoyed her presence. She instantly became a member of our family. Our ceremony was beautifully crafted, and fun spirited while painting the most beautiful portrait of our love and time together. Rev Roxy kept the audience engaged with her eloquently written message. She was such a pleasure to have as an officiant and counselor but we are even happier to now have her as a friend, sister, and constant supporter of our marriage! Thank you Rev Roxy and Reverend Joshua for your time and constant love. We are so pleased that we have you both...