My experience here was perplexing, rather than peaceful. Having worked at a vegetarian café opposite a Tibetan Buddhist centre in Oxford in the past, a place regularly visited by the Tibetan monks, whose teachings of meditation and spiritual discipline were the focus, I expected something along similar lines. Instead, I was met with multiple artworks depicting topless female forms, as soon as I walked in the door, alongside a gloating golden male Buddha figure next to 2 golden topless female statues subsequently in the 'prayer room'. The atmosphere felt inappropriately sexualised & exploitative rather than spiritual, from the start.
As a female, I value the right to privacy of the body, and this kind of overt visual representation of the female form thrust into my face as soon as I walked into the place, felt incongruent with my spiritual values. Other Buddhist centres I’ve been to in the past were filled with prayer flags and a sense of sanctuary, not an atmosphere resembling an advertising promotion for a topless massage parlour under the guise of Buddhism.
Service was slow, and the staff seemed insecure & hesitant. The majority were young foreign language speaking female volunteers with limited English, according to the older female manager, who was polite & apologetic, when she had to hand deliver my cappuccino I'd ordered to me, after I had to complain it hadn't arrived. Still, I couldn’t shake the uncomfortable feeling being there. If predominantly female volunteers are being invited from abroad to work unpaid, in a place dominated by depictions of topless female forms, in a foreign location where they don't speak the language, it raises serious questions about the covert message of exploitation being portrayed.
After doing some research, I found historic Buddhist texts describing “service” in troubling terms. Enlightenment being associated with being serviced at brothels in some cultural traditions left me disillusioned. It’s hard to reconcile that kind of 'teaching' with the peaceful monastic teachings I grew up respecting, when working with the Tibetan Buddhists in Oxford.
If the English owners of Leicester's Buddhist Centre can afford enormous expensive golden statues on their premises, but not fair wages for their mainly young foreign female staff, it suggests their priorities are out of alignment. The commodification of sexualised imagery and unpaid labour dressed up as “a religious peace centre” is not part of my spiritual repertoire, nor something I want to support — so I won’t be accepting further invitations to meet anyone...
Read moreIn the heart of Leicester, I stumbled upon an enchanting oasis that provided a serene escape from the bustling urban life. Run by a committed group of volunteers from around the world, this delightful café, tucked away within a Buddhist meditation centre, offers a unique atmosphere and a delectable selection of vegetarian and vegan fare.
What sets this charming spot apart from conventional fast food experiences is not only the tranquil ambiance but also the impressively affordable prices, with all dishes priced below £7. From time to time, they even merge meditation sessions with delightful culinary experiences, resulting in truly unforgettable events.
As you enter the café, its distinct character is immediately apparent, making it an exceptional locale within the city. I wholeheartedly encourage anyone in the area to pay a visit to this hidden treasure and experience the warm and welcoming environment fostered by the amicable staff.
The friendly team members are more than willing to discuss their meditation offerings, creating an inviting atmosphere that will undoubtedly charm all who enter. If you're in town, don't miss the opportunity to visit this standout destination and enjoy its remarkable fusion of tranquility and...
Read moreA very special place in the heart of Leicester, where you can find a bit of peace and space amongst the busyness of a hustling bustling city. Run by volunteers - predominantly international volunteers who visit with the intention to practice their English, learn new skills, and enjoy British culture - and also some Leicester local volunteers, this is a hearty cafe with a kind and welcoming energy and ambiance. The service is usually very prompt but even if you have to wait a little longer during peak periods, the food and drinks are always made with love, care and attention. It’s very affordable. The portions are good. The food is delicious. My go to is soy matcha latte and jacket potato with rainbow veg & hummus. They also have a good range of soft drinks, cakes and a nice...
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