The aesthetic of the lounge/bar is very chills and dope. The staff is very friendly and upbeat.
However; my first experience in this lounge will be my last. After leaving a nice kickback at Harlem Knights a few friends of mine, and myself went to Alibi.
As me made our way in, the vibe of the lounge was very welcoming. One lady even looked back at my friends and I and said "Hello".
Aftet maybe 10 minutes in the place, what I later learned that the owner of the establishment was walking around the bar asking people " Are you buying a drink ".
Now while I am all here, for another Black Gay man soring and building a successful business. The owner was very rude and tacky.
As he asked everyone ( maybe 7 people ) did they plan on buying a drink ? Then next came to me.
Let me remind you, this is my very first time in this bar. He asked me was I buying a drink and I immediately became offensive and offened.
I do not walk into any bar or resturant ordering drinks within the first 2 minutes of my arrival. Not when I have visited Boxers, Nor G lounge, Nor Harlem Knights!
I was not going to write this reveiew, because again. I support and/or want to support local black own establishments within the gay community.
However; the owner came out from behind the bar a second time. Asking myself and my friends were we buyiny drinks.
While one friend was about to order 12 shots, my partner stopped him. Due to me addressing the owner and the owner telling him , he cannot sit in his chairs if he has not purchased a drink !
I then stood up to let the owner know that, by this being my very first visit time in his bar. It is/was very rude to be approached and asked TWICE if I and/or we were going to purchase a drink ?
And as I stood up and verbally stated how I felt about this matter. He looked at me and said " OK ".
Furthermore; I will not be visiting Alibi...
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Ā Ā Ā Read moreI would never come here again. Iām not sure who the new owners are but they are overcharging. We ordered 3 frozen drinks with barely any alcohol in it and one shot of patron and the cost came to $94! I donāt mind spending money on drinks but the bartender included a $14 tip and they charged us over $20 for using a credit card. The service was subpar. When I pay this type of money I expect to have excellent service. The bartender was lazy, spent most of the time on her phone and never checked in with us or anyone for that matter. We had to ask for water a few times and I saw the same frustration in a few other customers and a man who was also behind the counter with her appeared to be somewhat frustrated with her as well. I hate when small businesses like this come in and try to exploit the community. I will never...
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