A few weeks ago, I visited Pera with clients and colleagues for a high-stakes team dinner — about 15 of us, all dressed in formal business attire. I’d read about Pera in The New York Times, and some of my colleagues had positive prior experiences, so I was genuinely excited.
While the food was excellent, what happened that evening left a bitter memory for many of us. I feel compelled to share this — not out of anger, but in the hope it prompts reflection.
Earlier that day, I had worn a brand-new pair of leather shoes which gave me painful shoe bites. By dinner, the skin on my feet had peeled, and walking was incredibly difficult. I discreetly removed my shoes while seated at the table, simply to ease the pain. We were not in a casual setting — I was in a business suit, and I had no intention of being disrespectful.
But then a manager came over and whispered, "Please wear your shoes. Another customer is complaining." I explained I was in genuine pain, but she insisted, "It’s our policy." Then another staff member — tall, long hair, stern — chimed in: "You're inside our premises, not outside. You must follow our rules."
I was shocked by the lack of empathy. Rather than offering assistance or even a kind word, she looked at her colleague, rolled her eyes, and the two of them laughed. I was repeatedly told, “You should not have come if your feet were hurting so much. You should’ve stayed home.” That hurt more than the blisters.
When I asked for a copy of the policy, I was told it wasn’t written anywhere — “It’s common sense. This is not a tiki bar,” the manager said, repeating the phrase multiple times, despite the context clearly showing that I was in pain and not being unruly.
I get it — policies are policies. But in the absence of a written rule, and with a clearly explained physical condition, wouldn’t basic humanity prevail? I wasn’t asking for special treatment, just for a moment of understanding.
My team was equally taken aback by the dismissive attitude of the staff. What was meant to be a celebratory evening turned sour. This is a restaurant that has received critical acclaim, yet what we experienced was tone-deaf and demeaning.
I write this not to criticize for the sake of it, but to invite reflection. Maybe the policy should be revisited — or at the very least, enforced with more compassion. If someone is in visible pain, perhaps staff could ask, “Is there anything we can do to help?” instead of “You should’ve stayed home.”
I don’t expect anything in return, but I hope my experience gives the management a chance to rethink how rules and empathy can coexist — because right now, it feels...
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