AGRESSION AT Sticky Wicket Pub And Restaurant Victoria BC.

I have to report an aggression last night from Sticky Wicket, I file a report with the police to the staff for aggression at the place. I was trying to pay my drinks (prove of that I paid for my taxi after the incident) I just needed time to figured out how to pay with my smartwatch, same happened at the entrance I couldn’t pay… I’m not savvy but the staff saw it as “too drunk to pay”, so the bartender called security, and a Filipino guard without asking me nothing just grabbed me and took me out. On the way out he hurt me… I have multiple bruises in the left arm, my hand it’s swollen, on the side of my left breast is in pain as well as my left feet.

There was no need of doing that, the use of this kind of force, the use of violence was completely unnecessary I was not aggressive.

I understand how difficult it’s to work in a place like this, I can actually understand the reasoning of they taking me out. What I don’t accept is the unnecessary violence. That’s why I’m coming here, ashamed, hurt, and in one of my most humble moments.

They just showed what can be done if you are in a vulnerable position, and as a woman and an immigrant I was expecting a better behaviour with my humanity. This shows that having a bit of power and presumed another person in a vulnerable position will make you believe you are entitled to hurt people like they did physically to my body.

when I was outside they send over multiple security guys, to refused my way in. At that point I was just looking for my purse so I could go home, some of the guys from the staff come to me and said they found my friends and there was no fanny bag. When that happened I left I grabbed a cab and paid for it. That was all the explanation I needed. Not the aggression.

And yes, I had drinks, but I was perfectly conscious of what was happening. And watching all of them, disrespecting me, and aggressioning me… was very scary, at the point I feared for something worse, and believe me… completely possible after noticing how they all behaved in that situation. I wonder what more they could do with anyone in a worse situation than mine? My thinking… they will totally take advantage of it, and do “who knows what” to a person in a vulnerable position. I believe what could be done at sticky wicket by their staff, it’s extremely dangerous and they need to be exposed.

The fact that I was having drinks, does not permit the sticky wicket staff to do this to my body. I shouldn’t be treated with violence because you didn’t want to deal with me. But because I was in vulnerable position they thought they could hurt me.

Probably nothing much will happen about this… mostly because the establishment under the statement “that I was drunk” they are permitted to use force. However in any part of that logic is implied the use of VIOLENCE, as my body can prove it was in this case.

Every day, losing more respect, of certain humans… people passing by at the entrance, completely unbothered, watching the staff commit violence in front of their eyes, (shocking). To the girl at the entrance, watching her unbothered, seeing them being like that with me, gave me the creeps.

As an immigrant I genuinely (I see now, naively) was expecting more of you.

And to the Filipino guy who actually commit the act. A women bring you to this world, you should be told the reasoning of your existence and why you should be respectful with everyone more with women, and more with people in vulnerable positions. But that’s a conversation you are clearly not prepared to have, just telling you… there’s a special place in this life or in the other for people like you. I pray for you men.