-♾️ As a U.S. citizen, an orphan, a survivor of domestic abuse, and an autistic mother, I never thought I’d have to fight this hard to be heard — and still be completely silenced.
I was adopted from a foreign country with the hope that America would give me the chance to live in safety, freedom, and dignity. My grandfather, Clonts, served as a spy in World War II for this very nation — and yet here I am, his granddaughter, harassed, bullied, and broken down by the very system he fought to defend.
Despite having full custody, I had my children taken from me. My ex — a man with multiple felonies, who is not a U.S. citizen, and who falsely accused me of sexually abusing our children — now has control over them. How is this justice?
I’ve endured years of emotional, psychological, and financial abuse. He got married while we were still legally married. He pays no child support. He has repeatedly violated the court order, yet I’m the one being punished.
I’m allowed only one hour of visitation a week, while being expected to stay emotionally stable after being constantly retraumatized. My children — who clung to me and begged not to be left — are now under the care of someone I’ve repeatedly told the courts I fear. I’m terrified for their safety, and no one is listening.
The system has failed. DCFS has failed. Caseworker Emily has miscommunicated, fabricated information, and threatened to call security on me for comforting my crying child. I will not sign any documents through her. My trust is gone. I am done being gaslit and dismissed.
📉 National Statistics: • Mothers are more likely than fathers to be victims of intimate partner abuse. (CDC) • False allegations of abuse are used as a legal strategy in custody battles, and less than 5% of abuse allegations are false. (American Psychological Association) • Over 58,000 children a year in the U.S. are court-ordered into the custody of an abusive parent. (Leadership Council on Child Abuse & Interpersonal Violence) • In many cases, non-citizen parents with criminal records still receive custody rights due to loopholes, legal bias, or under-resourced court systems. My ex has violated our divorce decree and continues to find loopholes to further manipulate and abuse us.
The Constitution has been amended 27 times, and yet, it still doesn’t protect mothers like me or the children placed in dangerous homes. If America cannot protect its own citizens — let alone its most vulnerable — then we have a human rights crisis happening in our family courts.
Utah has not only failed me, but it has endangered my children. I no longer feel safe in this state. I no longer trust this system. And I am not alone.
To the mothers out there who have been silenced: you are not crazy, you are not weak, and you are not alone. We deserve a system that listens, protects, and values truth — not power, manipulation, or corruption.
It’s time for justice. It’s time for change. It’s time...
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